Nonjudgmental

"When I tell that every once in a while we should be celebrating/blessing/admiring someone around us just for the fact they are present, people always mistake it with spoiling that person. If someone gets spoiled, either one of the parties carries a burden that they should not be carrying or act spoiled to draw attention because their presence is not blessed. So, in both cases, people act  spoiled because the ‘Attention' is blessed, not the ‘Presence'. People acting spoiled is due to a lack of something not an excess."